What Makes It Hard?

Why is it so hard to make decisions? Why is it so hard to choose happiness?

Is it because we are afraid that if we do, we will be hurting a lot of people?

Is it because we’d rather be unhappy and miserable for the rest of our lives just to keep everything as they are? Or is it because we’re afraid to lose what we already have?

What is there to lose anyway? Isn’t it that if we truly love, everything makes sense and we’ll be able to conquer everything?

Have you even been in a situation where you have to choose between two people? Is it really possible to love two people at the same time? Is loving only one person so hard to make? Is loving two people at the same time a thing to be proud of?

Deciding to do something is just the beginning of more things to come. It doesn’t end there. We can decide to be happy or be unhappy.

The question is, are we willing to find our own happiness, even if it means hurting a lot of people? Are we willing to risk everything that we already have just for that one goal? Or do we just keep everything as they are —in secret, complicated, but at least nobody gets hurt because nobody knows.

Sooner or later, we will have to decide. And only we can decide for ourselves, that’s the hardest part, I guess.

Are we willing to get what we truly want, because deep down in our hearts, in our bones, in our entire being, it feels so right?

I strongly believe that if we follow our hearts, everything will fall right into place. That is the only time when we can have peace of mind and a taste of real happiness.

I wish you blue skies and all things nice,