Winter Blues and Woes

align boxBlog Owner and Post Author: Lainy

It has been a rather miserable week weather-wise. The icy cold temps and the bone chilling winds kept me curled up in bed till past 9am. It’s extremely depressing!

Thanks to my mother who’s been taking over looking after my little babe at around 6 in the morning. I had the luxury of rolling in bed for a couple more hours.

Because of the freaking brutal chills, we had no choice but to bundle up. We had to bundle up some more because the heating in the house did not work for a couple of weeks. With an almost newborn baby around, it was simply unacceptable! I feel so sorry for my mother too who’s not used to this kind of weather.

It took a couple of weeks of hounding the Real Estate agent who did the job of negotiating to the Landlord until it was finally given a go for replacement. I had to look up the high heavens and thank the Father Almighty when it has been finally replaced and installed.

We are already half way through winter and I must say that we have braved this nasty weather valiantly. It is still a blessing that we don’t get snow around here. However, we have been forewarned by the Weatherman that a massive cold snap is expected this weekend. This Aussie Freeze will make us feel we are in the Antarctic sending icy blasts all over Australia. Even the Sunshine State Queensland is expected to experience dusty snow.

Meanwhile,we were watching the famed The State of Origin between Queensland Maroons and New South Wales Blues while I am trying to update this blog at the same time.

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Of course we were rooting for the Blues but the Maroons are most likely to win this decider game if they continue to play like how they are playing at the moment until the last tick- the count is 34-2 with still 25 minutes left in the game. My husband thinks there is no way the Blues are gonna come back from it. It proved to be a boring and a disappointing game for the Blues fans.

With the heating mightily running in the comfort of our home, my husband and I devoured a big bowl of ice cream in the middle of winter! 😉

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I was hoping it will help appease his displeasure over the Blues’ embarrassing performance.

A Time and Place for Everything

align boxBlog Owner and Post Author: Lainy

I was having second thoughts on going public about my Pregnancy Journey and Birthing Story. I was in contemplation for quite some time. As a matter of fact, my firstborn is now nearly four months old!

I feel like it’s far too much information. While I sit and think hard about it, I rationalized to completely move forward.

I now bear a rather different stance when publicly sharing my affairs. While the internet is not the safest place to be, I still can go personal but I’d exercise prudence and tact. I’d be more cautious, too.

Besides, my blogs are now dead and nobody couldn’t even care less! LOL!

I am not going back on my word. I shall remain to be transparent. As I have once said and if I may just quote:

I realized that the more open and transparent I remained, the more I find true friends who truly supported me in my ordeal and who reassured me that I have their backs no matter what. I am now at a place where I chose to share some of my life’s struggles, downfalls, pains, joys, and blessings without feeling shame and fear of judgments because I have learned that our lives should be a living testimony and it is always for God’s greater glory.

By saying that, I shall resume documenting bits and pieces of my journey at my first blog, A Sojourner’s Saga.

Fret not.

I won’t inundate my blogs with everything personal. I should know when to make a pause or to completely call a halt to what is being said.

Indeed, there is a time and place for everything and it will remain that way.

Secundo Forte

align boxBlog Co-Author: Windy

It has been well past six months though it seems just like yesterday I was in bed with Joy. Now blessed with Caroline who turns 5 months old in two weeks hence.

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Grown she has and healthily thus far. It has been the most wondrous time in my life and oh! how I love babies.
Our neighbors have grown very fond of Caroline.

Joy is eager now. She wants to get work started on having a son, Ethan.
Where is my Viagra?

This certainly has been my Secundo Forte, my Second Chance and I got back my life with Joy and Caroline.

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What Will Happen to my Facebook Account If I Die?

align boxBlog Owner and Post Author: Lainy

OK. So where have I been all this time?

I have been regularly updating my Facebook account rather than my blogs. It proved to be easier to hit the “publish” button on Facebook because I no longer have the need to resize the pictures as opposed to my blogs. I mostly do my Facebook updates via my phone and it was very accessible and convenient. There’s no more need for me to have my laptop running.

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I have spent so much time and effort interacting with family and friends via Facebook. It is too personal that it’s real as it gets.

Then it suddenly occurred to me and it hit me hard:

What if I suddenly pass away?

It may sound morbid but this is an inevitable occurrence which will come- sooner or later; whether we like it or not. It will come like a thief in the night. We really never know as to when, where, and how.

So what will become of my Facebook account after my passing? Will it also die a natural death when I die?

The answers may not be as simple as it sounds but let’s go through this one by one.

To those who are not aware, we can either preserve or let go of our Facebook profiles.

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1. MEMORIALIZE our Facebook accounts.

Based on Facebook Policies and Standard Operating Procedures,

Memorialized accounts are a place for friends and family to gather and share memories after a person has passed away.

Memorialized accounts have the following key features:

  • The word Remembering will be shown next to the person’s name on their profile
  • Depending on the privacy settings of the account, friends can share memories on the memorialized Timeline
  • Content the person shared (ex: photos, posts) stays on Facebook and is visible to the audience it was shared with
  • Memorialized profiles don’t appear in public spaces such as in suggestions for People You May Know, ads or birthday reminders
  • No one can log into a memorialized account
  • Memorialized accounts that don’t have a legacy contact can’t be changed
  • Groups with an admin whose account was memorialized will be able to select new admins
  • Pages with a sole admin whose account was memorialized will be removed from Facebook if we receive a valid request

To request for Account Memorialization, you can use this form: CLICK HERE.

2. DELETE our Facebook Accounts.

If we choose to no longer share to our audience the publications we’ve done when we were still alive, deletion of the account is the way to go.

To do this:

  • From the top right of Facebook, click and select Settings
  • From the left menu, click Security
  • Click Legacy Contact
  • Click have your account permanently deleted and follow the on-screen instructions

To quote Facebook FAQ:

We will process certain special requests for verified immediate family members, including requests to remove a loved one’s account. This will completely remove the profile (timeline) and all associated content from Facebook, so no one can view it.

For all special requests, we require verification that you are an immediate family member or executor. Requests will not be processed if we are unable to verify your relationship to the deceased.

Examples of documentation that are accepted are the following:

  • The deceased’s birth certificate
  • The deceased’s death certificate
  • Proof of authority under local law that you are the lawful representative of the deceased or his/her estate.

If you are an immediate family member of the departed and wants to request for Account Deletion, you can use this form: CLICK HERE.

If your Facebook account is as personal as mine, it is important to discuss this with a trusted close friend or family members and let them know what you want them to do with your Facebook account once you have departed. They can then request Facebook to do either one of the two mentioned above as you had previously instructed.

This way, our memories will continue to live on especially so to those people that mattered to us the most.

Source:
Facebook Help Center

Hi-Hello Kind of Day

align boxBlog Owner and Post Author: Lainy

I called my brother today on his mobile phone. It is not everyday that I get to talk to him and his family. His little son is such a chatter!

Apart from our normal hi- hello and update-each-other’s-lives kind of chat, we also talk about how Kuerdas Band is faring at the local music scene. He can not help but mention as well about music supply store – Musicians Friend. He has been looking around for some fine gadgets but does not have the means to buy a new one as yet.

Where Do I Begin?

align boxBlog Owner and Post Author: Lainy

It does sound like a title of an oldie but goodie song. But it is not all about the song.

It is about me as a blogger and my slack countenance across my blogs. There has been a lot of things going on and I simply do not know where to start. This is not another lame excuse. It is a stated fact.

Gone were the days when all my thoughts and energy are supremely focused on my blogs. That was then.

This is the “now.” My priorities had a 360 degree turn.

Motherhood is such an overwhelming role. I took on that huge responsibility since I gave birth to my first born.

I am hoping that this post is a good sign that I could have my normal rhythm back in no time.

Mutual Love and Respect

align boxBlog Owner and Post Author: Lainy

Kuerdas Band members had successive out of town gigs. Each one of them own musicians earplugs. They deemed it a must.

One of the shows was a Municipality Foundation wherein one of The Voice contender, Kokoi Baldo, jammed along with them. It was cool to see them perform alongside each other on stage.

I noticed that musicians with the same genre have utmost mutual love and respect for each other.

Preschool Dude

align boxBlog Owner and Post Author: Lainy

My only nephew was too excited to sport out his school bag from www.thecrazydazy.com. He is a preschool dude at the moment and prior the opening of classes, he was more than ready to wake up very early and gear up for school. He is spending half a day learning social interaction skills and the like.

Manny Pacquaio: One Fight Too "Manny"

align boxBlog Co-Author: Windy

Lainy who comes from the same hometown as Manny Pacquaio sent me this question over Viber last weekend.

Question:
What do you think of the lawsuits (against Manny)?

Despite knowing how Lainy roots for the pride of General Santos and the rest of the Philippines, I gave my answer without fear or favor.

Here was my answer.

It is serious. They’re class action lawsuits.

In my opinion, it’s time for Manny to hang up his gloves.

I think he has lost the bludgeoning flurry of punches of his peak that he used to vanquish many opponents during his best years.

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More opponents are increasingly aware of his style and are able to last the full bout as compared to Manny’s early years when opponents did not know how to cope with his unorthodox style of receiving blows from him in all directions.

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It’s clearly a criminal breach of trust by making a false declaration about his physical condition.

All it takes is for one court to judge in favor of the aggrieved plaintiffs. The other lawsuits will follow suit and be judged the same way. And Manny is going to be jailed and/or lose tens of millions in settlement and legal fees.

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Manny also faces disciplinary sanction from the U.S. Boxing Association. That could mean a ban from boxing in the U.S. and it will hurt his future income and no where is the boxing booty bigger than in the U.S.

The U.S. Judiciary isn’t corrupt. So tell me what are his chances to be acquitted?

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And because boxing is legally a gaming sport in the U.S., the courts are not going to allow mitigation because it will set a precedent for other grave infractions to escape penalties let alone bring the sport into disgrace and hurt the image of sports in America.

With a seriously impeded pre fight injured arm, Manny is being alarmingly reckless to hide it and engage in a fight with an opponent who has never lost or drawn in his boxing career.

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Call it bravado, call it stupid, call it anything. But unfit boxers have been physically maimed or died as a result of what is a brutal sport when they could not effectively defend themselves in the ring.

For that, Manny is likely to lose the respect from his once upon a time die hard fans and he might not live up to the iconic grandeur that he enjoyed before.

Manny threw more punches but landed less hits than Mayweather.
Manny threw more punches but landed less hits than Mayweather.

For sure, Manny is no more a myth that his past victories made him out to be.

Today, spurred by greed and over rating his ageing ability, he has shown that he is mortal and reduced himself to defacing his title as a legend.

As it is with incorrigible wives who nag their husbands till it kills their marital life, so too it is with boxers who refuse to call it a day and hang their gloves until they destroy themselves and alas! one fight too many.

Manny should ride into the sunset of his boxing career by reviving the diminishing interest in eating “balut” in the Philippines.

Hai nako! what a way to earn a living?
(running through his mind) “Hai nako! what a way to earn a living?”

He should therefore establish an all nation balut francise with balut factories that offer jobs (to his countrymen).

At Lainy's Insistence

align boxBlog Co-Author: Windy

It is baby-boom time.

At the insistence of Lainy, (since I announced her childbirth), Lainy told me that I should announce the arrival of my baby-girl.

But this is not a sign that I am returning to blogging.

Caroline Macaso van Dort was born on Jan 3rd. 2015. It was not to be X’mas or New Year Day arrival as her mother wished.

She is now past 2 months old and I cannot find the right words to describe how delighted and happy I am. At last, I have a daughter. She fulfils my life-long wish.

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